About me

Hello and welcome to my blog! 🤗
My name is Sol. I’m swedish so pardon my english I practice everyday 😅 please write and say if you find something in my language that seems a bit too strange so that I can evolve and write better as this blog grows 🎀
I dare to say that I actually do belong in the kitchen. I mean myself not every other women. But it is in the kitchen with my family finally around me again that I have my heart.

I’m 43 years old (how did it happen so fast?) I live with my mister and our 3 now not so small children. Well they’re more like young adults if you ask them 😊. In Sweden. I’m an aspiring wife to my best friend in life. we’ve been together for a very long time and we call eachother hubbie and wifey as it comes so natural after these years. We will have a wedding but we have had such extremely difficult years of sickness due to trauma in our little family that we’re all recovering from right now and finding our way back to life. It is going to take time and it’s now more important than ever to maintain our home as a loving safe place.
As the name of my blog says I’m a housewife which means I work 7 days a week and enjoy pretty much every minute of it. I am also recovering from trauma and PTSD as do our children. Right now I genuinly feel so blessed, as our lives has not at all been played in the easy street.. We’ve gone thru really really hard things together that I will write about later in the blog.
But I can tell you one thing that can be good to know to those who want to understand more about my thoughts and life choices.

My parents separated when I was only 3 yrs old. And as long as I can remember my mother treated me very badly and in horrible ways to a child no matter the age. And I wasn’t particulary loved by her.
I’m so thankful I had a very good grandmother and still have a great father, who is a doctor.

Much because of these facts I’ve always had a strong longing for belonging and of a safe home. Here’s were my story begins. Mixed with my grandmother being an excellent housewife who just loved baking. She also loved me.
Add my love of walking barefoot in the summer rain and this pretty much makes the picture of who I am.
I’m schooled. As a proffessionaly trained assistant nurse and certified body therapist. Most of my grown life though I’ve been a stay at home mom. And nowadays I am a full time housewife 🏡 Tending to my Mister, children and home full on. And I feel liberated. Wouldn’t trade it for anything else in this world 🌍

I’m going to write about the intriguing matters of wanting to be a good, soft and responsive housewife without being nothing like a door mat. It’s about the freedom of choice, freedom of equality, and the absolute right as a human and woman to choose ones own life. I’ll also write alot about the art of making magic in day to day life with not very high means at all ✨. So keep your eyes open as I happens to be a master in that subject 😉

If you’d like to you can also find me on instagram 🌸

instagram.com/thehousewife.design

xx

Read more:

https://housewife.design/2020/04/10/traditional-gender-roles-as-a-source-of-happiness/

https://housewife.design/2020/04/12/easter-housewife-straithening-things-up/

instagram.com/thehousewife.design

5 reaktioner på ”About me

  1. Very nice testimony. I love your writing and what you say about choices. I’m a stay at home mom for more than 23 years now and I love every moment of it hugs from France 🇫🇷

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  2. I’m grateful I found your blog. I’m so sorry to hear about your mother. It makes sense because I’ve always wanted a family and a nice, warm home because I didn’t have it as a child. Sadly, I’m in my 30s and don’t have children so it may not happen for me. I found your Instagram and thought I’d visit your blog. I look forward to learning more about you and how to be a house wife 🙂

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    • Hi! I’m so glad you’re here. It is so sad to know you as well had such a childhood, that’s something we keep missing for our whole lifes. Hugs for you ♥️

      Gilla

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